Getting a child is not a simple matter and most ladies think twice before making that decision. When the issue of bringing up children comes up in conversations between you and your man and you are both in agreement, then it is a clear indication that you ready for marriage life. The desire to have a child means that you ready to be a parent and a child must have a father, right? Then this means you are comfortable having children with your spouse hence every reason to seal the parentage with marriage.