5. Don’t try so hard

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The more we look for something, the more we cannot find it. Normally we get preoccupied in finding people with just the right qualities that we fail to realize how close we are to them. When you stop looking for the ideal guy, that’s the time they come walking right to you without much effort.

Looking for “the one” will just leave you frustrated and desperate. Desperation is a bad thing whenever you want to establish a relationship because you end up settling for less.