Mind you, you have passed the stage of craving the rave/walwalan type of hangouts mainly because instead of the wake-me-up-inside kind of feeling, you now want to have the chill-under-the-stars vibe. And what best way to have that but with your closest girl friends and a bottle, or two, of the finest or cheapest wines you can find.
You will swap a great catch up with them than a possible hook-up in a bar because you prioritize the people you have now rather than looking for a fling. Tara, chill!