“Can ex-lovers still be friends?” A lot of people may have asked the question once in a while. Some might say yes and throw you the famous, “Time can heal all wounds”, others claim that it’s the craziest thing to do when it comes to love. Admittedly, there’s no accurate or even “right” response to it.
But one thing is certain – there are lots of reasons why one can’t and shouldn’t be friends with an ex. Would you still be in touch with the person who gave you so much pain or would you just leave that person in the past? However you may view it, here are some of the reasons why you can’t be friends with your ex anymore:
5The moving on process is affected
In this roller coaster ride of being friends with an ex, your moving on process could be affected BIG TIME. It messes with your mind and confuses you on whether you still have feelings or you’re ready to really move on. Most often than not it will lead you to get back together with them.
It’s not that getting back together with your ex is bad – but it will have great dangers. The pain you have caused to each other may be one way of ruining yourselves further if you’ll stay in touch with each other. You have broken up because there has been changes, and your ex cannot change them back, and neither can you. So, keep yourself in check from time to time to avoid making rash decisions.
