This is the chief factor that drives most relationships to failure or even the unlikely event of a man approaching a woman who is high up in the social ladder than themselves. A man feels insecure when he knows how successful a lady is at their work and achievements such as being independent. This means a lady with her own assets and money can make a man feel really insecure and this is a contributing factor to her not getting approached by men as they feel insecure. A man who is not insecure can approach any woman they like but sadly there are very few.